How can I stop fretting about my looks?

People tell me I’m very attractive, but I truly don’t see it. Guys don’t approach me that much, girls my age (18-22)don’t come up to me saying I’m pretty like they do other girls. I don’t have any real friends. I just feel so down on myself. I’m not a popular person at my university. I think about how ugly I am... show more People tell me I’m very attractive, but I truly don’t see it. Guys don’t approach me that much, girls my age (18-22)don’t come up to me saying I’m pretty like they do other girls. I don’t have any real friends. I just feel so down on myself. I’m not a popular person at my university. I think about how ugly I am 24/7, and it makes me depressed. I admire those girls who are beautiful and exude confidence. How can I stop beating up on myself? It’s starting to take a toll on me.
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