Both CO and CA have legalized marijuana, thus don't need a medical card to get it.
There is NO requirement that a parent pay for a child's education, thus many students today work and go to school to pay for it. Like one poster stated, the cost for someone to go to college out of state is very expensive.
Your excuses of needing it for anorexia and also diagnosed for depression and suicidal is a real problem, since with weed it helps, but since also have a cannabis disorder means that you are not using them just for your problems, but also can't control it. Rebab teaches you other approaches to take care of your problem vs weed.
Look, many kids who don't have parents paying for their education, go to community college for 2 years, then transfer the credits to a college, thus when they graduate they have it from a college and can cut the costs that the student is paying or loans to pay back by more than 1/2.
Technically, since age 18, your mom can kick you out and not offer you a place to live, and you would be on your own to pay rent and food, forget about even going to college.
Your choice. .