Question 1 - No. Women fall in love slowly over time. Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.
Question 2 - Yes, hopeless romantic guys DO exist, but it is NOT what most women emotional respond to. The guy you describe does exist, however he is that same guy who texts & calls all the time, asks “what’s wrong”, acts dopey and gushy, and is not a masculine man. His approval seeking behavior communicates he’s not worthy and you rapidly lose respect. You realize he likes you more than you like him. Now you’re “confused” and “need space.”
Does this sounds familiar? The truth is there’s a difference between what a woman THINKS she wants, and what she actually emotionally responds to.