Is this normal treatment?
Since I was young I've always felt like my parents treated me worse than her. Over the years she has done many. things to me, including ruining my belongings, taking my belongings and stealing money from me (the last time she did this was just last year). Every time I'd complain I'd get shut down and have things said to me like 'she's young' or 'its because she doesn't have money.'
When I for once retaliated and hid a necklace of hers I got called 'bad hearted', even though she got it back. I never got my stolen things back.
Since I got my licence at 15, my parents have never thought of getting a car for me. When my sister got her licence, within a few months she had a new car. There are 4 cars at my house; 1 for mum, 1 for dad, 1 for sister and an extra one for 'weekends'. Two days a week I need to go for appointments, instead of a parent using the weekend car I'm made to walk 1 hour 20 minutes there and back.
I've had money taken from me by my mum so she could. buy things 'for the whole house', even though that money was for me to use for my schooling. My mum never dares to ask my sister for anything monetary.
What do I do? Is their behaviour to normal? Do I deserve it because I'm the oldest?