You should have been around in the 60s and 70s. In comparison, there's nothing "feminine" about the way men look today.
Or, let's see, how about all the make-up and wigs they wore in the 18th century, or the long, braided hair and make-up the ancient Greeks and Egyptians wore?
People have been whining about things like this for eons. It's pointless.
Men are no more "scared and sensitive" than they've ever been. However, they might be more willing to admit it. That's merely healthy.
Grow up, dear. You sound like quite a little whiner yourself.