How do I get elders to see if I have a label it does not mean everything I do is because of that label?
I feel I have OCD but am not OCD itself. If I see one of their enemies it is because I benefit from the relationship whereas they do not and thus are enemies with the people. If I pray it is because my parents raised me Catholic, not because I was raised The Church of OCD. If I do something wrong like when I made a death threat in high school it is because I am wrong and should be shamed, not because the OCD made me do it.
So while the OCD does have some involvement in all this like I worry in advance if a family member will like me and post-visit analyze for days, the OCD is not why I do it. If I go to church and am distracted I might feel like I need to go again that day and that can be OCD, but me going more then once a week is not OCD.
Anyway how do I get them to see this? How do I get them to see it is not all "he is obsessed"?