I don't agree with people telling you to go on your own. This is a marriage problem, not an individual one. When he says he won't go, he's basically saying he doesn't care if you're unhappy. That sounds like a marriage that's already over.
When you say you "love" him, is this based on stuff from the past? Is it based on the good times you have, which are probably getting shorter and further apart? What you want to make sure of is that you mstay in the moment. How happy are you TODAY?
It sounds like you want to get to the point where you issue this as an ultimatum. Either he goes with you, or you end the marriage. Obviously, you can't say this until you're prepared to follow through if he still blows it off.
· 3 months ago