I always thought parents were responsible for a child's behavior but I now have different thoughts.
Depending on the age...if they are young and under your care, you usually play a big roll in how they behave.
There is still a but... no matter what you do, some children just seem like no one is going to tell them what to do and it is terrible, when most parents try their best to bring their children up properly.
Now, after they move out...get married...you can only hope all the good morals, values and standards you have set for them, will be remembered.
Some will break your heart...they get in with the wrong people and some even end up in jail. You ask yourself...where did we go wrong.... You did not go wrong, it is one of those unfortunate things that happen to us......we might think that death wouldn't have been so hard on us.
I know of good families who have had children go wrong. Maybe a girl/boy friend, or the one they married.....found a way to drag them down. They have become our darling children, we no longer know.