Wants me to adopt his child? I don't want to.?

Update: I have been with my boyfriend under a year, he has a child who is nine years old, the mother passed away three years ago. He is trying to pressure me to adopt his child,and I told him I just do not feel comfortable doing that. I have no problem with the child and I accept the child, but I just am not comfortable... show more I have been with my boyfriend under a year, he has a child who is nine years old, the mother passed away three years ago. He is trying to pressure me to adopt his child,and I told him I just do not feel comfortable doing that. I have no problem with the child and I accept the child, but I just am not comfortable with adoption.
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