Personally, I do not believe you should be bringing unsuspecting victims into this world if you can't even take care of yourself and that is what your child would be … an unsuspecting victim. What happens if your spouse gets ill or dies or leaves you; how will you financially support yourself and a child? As an FYI, even when everything is great, kids can be exhausting and expensive. I used to think that if I turned 40 and wasn't married, I would have a child and raise it on my own. OMG! Thank god that never happened! Both me and my husband make decent livings, my spouse is very supportive and my job is very flexible and I really wanted my 2 kids; but some days I am completely spent. Where do you live that you can even afford to rent a 2 bedroom apartment (which is what you would need if you had a baby) for $750 a month ... and still be able to pay the electricity, telephone, TV, food, car insurance / maintenance? If you have a baby, you also need to pay for baby food, clothes, diapers, a bed, car seat, carriage … and that's only when they're babies! When they go to school and see how everyone else has stuff and goes on vacations and has activities, how do you think they're going to feel? I don't mean to discourage you, but before you bring sadness to some person who isn't even here, why don't you bring some happiness to yourself and do something to make your life better (financially) for you? You're no good to someone else, until you are good to you! Amen!