"Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to settle but he also doesn’t want to be accused of using women for sex, is it fair that he visits hookers?Why?"
Under full equality across the board, nobody would have a problem with an adult male making a legal transaction of money for sex with a fully consenting legally adult female. But our traditional ideas that come about from our ingrained evolutionary outcomes will not allow us all to go along with this. Funny enough, this even includes feminists who talk the talk about equality but are only really interested in any "equality" that benefits them and not equality across the board, obviously.
Two anonymous female answers and one non-anon reinforce this reality too. And the feminist penchant for lowering the threshold of what constitutes sexual harassment (for women only) only serves to elevate the already high sexual value of females compared to the near zero value of male sexuality. It is this imbalance in sexual value that will never allow a true equality to ensue, and will always keep us in a traditional mindset that will differentiate women from men to promote different treatment of women and men (NOT equality).
As previously stated, even feminists go along with this traditional idea because that benefits women by keeping their sexual value way above men's. No desire for equality there where women are superior. Funny that.