It can be difficult sharing a living space with another human being, whether they are a lover or just a roommate. Compromise needs to happen. Calm, respectful discussions need to happen. Dishes need to get done. Bills need to be paid. Make these a priority and try not to sweat the small stuff. "Choose your battles" as the saying goes. Which means, not everything is worth fighting over, just the most important stuff. It should be possible for two grown adults to have disagreements and discussions without shouting or saying stupid things to hurt each other, most of the time. Why are you fighting so much and what do you fight about? Trust? Money? Emotional needs? The cap on the toothpaste? Figure out what the real issues are and what the important issues are, and focus on those. One at a time. I don't know how it would be "bugging" him to want to work things out. Ignoring your problems won't make them go away. Even if you break up and move out, the next relationship you have will probably have similar issues, until you learn how to navigate through them.