while the pain that drives us to feeling the need to end it may not be apparent to others
it is real and there seems no end to it,, so if I die someday anyway and this pain will last until then
why not end it now -- how can I live with this pain for the next 5 10 20 30 years?
while this make no sense to many it is REAL and factual
And while we go home a leave that person suffering alone ,, his/her paid is constant and we think but life has so much good... While sure there is some abstinence of pain for even them .... it mostly is nominal
and then there are the slow subside people drinking them selves to death a slow awful way to die and no less a bad thing than subside
While we feel bad we let the person down ,, when they does their pain end -- never ? they just need to be happy in their pain ?
can you make someone happy yet do not? Ok then do it,
I will tell you feeling alone is the main drive, it mixed with physical pain and a sense there is no hope for things to REALLY get better ---- we put our dogs and cats to sleep if they are in unbearable pain
yet we force people to keep living to make us feel better
Find out what really is the pain they feel and then either do something about it or let them go
but do not feed them a lot of nonsense and physio-babel or religion they they do not believe .... they have heard it all and still do not feel better
as for being a sin ,,, ok just push them off a cliff then ,,, that is often something they cannot grasp any god would force them to love with no relief in the pain
most people feel alone and or unloved,, often not the love of friend of mom or dad but we are not special to someone in a mate way --- and all you attempts they may be just so unfitting no one can or will see them in that way ---- many married people feel the same ,, so when your uncle kills himself,,, it was not the medication the doctor had him on or the weather.... he was empty inside because the going through the motions just was more than he could bare anymore
