lol. First of all you need to change your thinking process. It's not all about you. It's about them. It's hurting them, not you. Here is a very concrete example:
Hero has King of Spades, 2 of spades. Villain has queen of spades, 4 of spades. You have Ace of spades, 4 of hearts. Blinds are 5/10 and everyone just calls preflop.
On the flop: J spades, 10 spades, 6 spades.
Everyone is super deep stacked with $3,000 behind. Pot is at $70
Hero bets out $70, you just call, Villain 3-bets to $210, Hero 4-bets to $800, And you fold your cards face up on the table. Now hero knows he has the nuts because you showed the Ace of spades. If Villain decided to push all-n for $3,000, Hero would have a tough decision. However, because you folded face up Hero can instantly call knowing nothing is beating him. You potentially costed villain a lot of money.