Are lesbian proposals frowned upon in the army?

I'm female, in the army for one year. I find my commanding officer (a woman) very hot. I know she has an interest in my and has said so. She is, though, hesitant to do anything. I was going to sneak up behind her and lay a big kiss on her neck. Would something like this (and longer term) be frowned upon because... show more I'm female, in the army for one year. I find my commanding officer (a woman) very hot. I know she has an interest in my and has said so. She is, though, hesitant to do anything. I was going to sneak up behind her and lay a big kiss on her neck. Would something like this (and longer term) be frowned upon because we are women? I know it's frowned upon with men, but women get away with it more. The guys don't really care about lesbians, and actually like it.
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