All my friends in my group have girlfriends, and I feel alone.?

See I was able to hang out with my friends. They were single and we hung out a decent amount of time but now alot of my friends have are taken they barley act like hey even know me. I find it so hard to text them up now because they are always busy or just don't want to hang out with me. I guess I could try to get a girlfriend, it's been a struggle for me so I tried it just stick with my friends rather than force myself to get into a relationship but it seems like that's my last choice. I just wish my friends would still hang out with me like we used to. I feel like I've lost them. And it sucks

3 Answers

  • 2 years ago

    Its time for you to move on, either to join a club that involves one of your interests,or to go looking for a GF, or both.

    Maybe there's a camera club around, or maybe if you're a good photographer, you could volunteer with a non-profit group to take pictures for publicity. If you like animals, it's a great help to get good pictures of animals that are up for adoption, because a lot of adopters see them first n Petfinder. Offering to take pictures for a rescue would be very helpful, and might also get you in touch with some girls who rescue cats and dogs. Sometimes, it takes you being able to show everyone your talents. Volunteering can give you a chance to work alongside other people, and therefore you have shared experiences and things to talk about, and the rest comes naturally.

    You're not going to get very far with your old friends, for now. It's time you found something to do that works for you. It's best you outgrow hanging around with guys just because you went to school with them, and found something more interesting to do. Stop waiting around, and go live your life. A camera is a great intro.

  • 2 years ago

    I know it's hard but I say definitely work on yourself as far as your love life or simply just having fun. Your friends will get soo jealous they'll start begging you to hangout with them soon..if not they weren't real friends to begin with💯 best of luck ✊😀

  • edward
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    When me and my friends all hung out together we all hang out as couples, we all had girlfriends/ boyfriends and we all hang out together but if one of us is single we don’t feel the need to shun them. We know who our real friends are

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