I really want a girlfriend?
How do I get a girlfriend?
- ez2tock2Lv 72 years agoFavorite Answer
Anything and Everything you want to Change or Improve about
yourself will require PRACTICE.
There are many many things school taught you that you (most people)
will NEVER use in real Life. You probably realize this by now.
The solution to your problem/dilemma is simple.
Depending on your personality, it may NOT be EASY, but it's still Simple.
BUT YOU HAVE TO DO THE WORK!!
BECOMING POPULAR, BUILDING SELF CONFIDENCE
both REQUIRE PRACTICE.
PRACTICE is just a way to LEARN to get better.
(High School / College / New Town / New Job)
Most guys, who care WAY TOO MUCH, usually project or
develop insecurities in themselves.
This does not Impress or Capture Women's Interest or Attention.
The key to Breaking the Ice with ANYONE,
is in the ability to make People Smile and Enjoy your company.
Always use Smiles, Humor and Compliments to approach people.
USE SMILES (to make them relax),
USE HUMOR (to make them Smile or Laugh),
USE COMPLIMENTS (to make them feel good about themselves
when they are around you)
Wouldn't you want to be around someone
that made you feel good about yourself?
What someone else Wants Thinks or Feels IS NEVER your concerns
If YOU like someone, YOUR HEART is what matters.
Your ONLY job/goal is to get by her side. In her company.
Once there, make her Smile, Laugh and Feel good about herself
Wouldn’t you like being around someone that did that for you??
This is how you win over people. Be Likable and Be Fun.
MAKE THIS YOUR PERSONALITY and people will look for/want to be around you.
All this may sound scary to you,
but aren't you already scared anyway…
And probably sick of being YOU. (the way you are)
CHANGE will Always be Uncomfortable…
until it becomes the way you do things.
Practice is about FAILING, until You Get Better.
DO NOT be afraid to Practice.
Practice is just taking BABY STEPS, until it becomes Who You Are.
Anyone who Rejects you is just PRACTICE.
Anyone who Engages you is PROGRESS.
Practice and try this out:
Start by NOT making a big deal out of it. You'll only worry yourself.
SMILE at all the girls. "ALL" THE GIRLS.
Not just the ones that appeal to you.
This is PRACTICE… NOT Let's Find a GIRLFRIEND / BRIDE.
Say "Hi" to as many as possible. Don't pick and choose who you say "Hi" too,
because some of them have other friends
that you will like and they could do the introductions
for you at some point.
Just like Sports... PRACTICE being popular.
Practice is the start to most things.
Keep in mind and REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly
has "NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE.
Smile. Say "Hi". Tell her your name, ask her her’s, but compliment her on something you like about her, BEFORE you let her say her name.
IT PLAYS OUT LIKE THIS:
You introduce yourself and compliment (the stranger) right away without letting them say their name. In case They were considering rejecting you, They now have a smile on Their face because of the compliment.
You just need to keep it there.
Then say... "I'm sorry, what was your name?" while still smiling.
One of the weakest qualities guys have with women is, the ability to hold a conversation. The secret to a conversation is asking a fun and simple question that a girl would enjoy answering.
Example: "I like your fingernail color. What color is that?" She says: "Ocean Spray Blue." You reply: "I knew you were going to do that. As a guy I would have said "a light shade of blue", but women always 'detail' their colors. Do girls get 'special training" on colors or what?" She'll giggle and give you an answer.
Ask her to name another color or Why is it girls do that?
Now you have her in a conversation.
She is enjoying a guy, enjoying her company.
Learn to Joke with people. It shows a sense of humor as they smile in your company. Example: "In my economics class I learned that TIME IS MONEY. Would you like to spend some with me?"
If She ask "Time or Money?" You SMILE and say. "YES."
PRACTICE this over and over. It's only scary the first 3 or 4 times.
Be nice and conversational to ALL the girls. Even plain girls have feelings and attractive friends, neighbors or cousins.
Be Respectful, you'll be remembered better.
Develop Popularity And The Girl You Are Looking For
Will Probably Find You.
If you don't start PRACTICING this now, you will lose out on many other
opportunities (girls) in the future. The Players call it "Having Game."
REMEMBER--Handsome, Beautiful or Butt Ugly
has "NOTHING" to do with PRACTICE.
Because it's only practice...
it doesn't matter if you strike out over and over again.
Also, if you get rejected 100,000 times.
There is still a BILLION girls you haven't met... YET!!!!!
and Vice Versa, girls that haven't met You... YET!!!!!
When you turn 21, A Whole New World Opens Up...
BE READY FOR IT.
CONFIDENCE is not about Succeeding. It's about NOT BEING AFRAID,
to Step Up, whether you get Accepted or Rejected.
After you get Accepted or Rejected, YOU WILL "Quit"
Torturing yourself with Worry and Curiosity.
- BertstaLv 72 years ago
You kids are supposed to be all over this noo-fangled technology sh!t. So I'm a little disappointed wit' you. There's gotta be an app for this right? Try Tinder or similar bro.
If you want to do it ole-skool style like we did back in the day, approach a girl you like and talk to her. Talking is when your mouth moves and sounds come out. If you can manage it those sounds should resemble words, and they should be delivered in a structured sequence so that the words form a phrase or sentence that makes sense. You should try to include a greeting, a witticism, a few complimentary comments and an invitation to have a drink at a specific later time/date/place. She wants you, just doesn't know it yet.
- artLv 62 years ago
stuff your wallet with notes (or cut up bits of newspaper to look like banknotes) make a big point about pulling the stuffed wallet out in front of a pretty woman in a pub or somewhere and you will instantly have a girlfriend to screw
- Anonymous2 years ago
Maybe it's different in kindergarten, but the women at my school value ability to ask a question as such.