woman s fiance is gay after flat mates finding a bunch of gay sex toys, jock strap, and 2 big lock boxes in his old room should we tell her?


well it's her business too is it not or does the gay community on support being authentically real when it suits them?

7 Answers

  • Chris
    Lv 4
    2 years ago

    No, that's up to the fiance

  • Sky
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    First of all, a jock strap has nothing to do with homosexuality. It is used as a supportive undergarment in sports or as an alternative to underwear. Second, you have no grounds to conclude homosexuality from 2 big lock boxes when you don't know what the contents of those boxes are, as if it was any of your business to know what's in side. Third, what exactly defines a "gay sex toy"? If you mean dildos, plenty of straight men enjoy anal penetration with dildos while continuing to have no attraction whatsoever to other men, and those toys could very easily be something used to pleasure his fiancee during their sexual intimacy. And if it's an artificial anus sex toy, there again a straight man can easily enjoy something like that when he is turned on by anal intercourse. Unless you found something like an inflatable man doll, you've got nothing. Therefore, fourth, you have provided zero evidence at all that conclusively shows or even hints that he may be gay. And fifth, even if he was gay, it is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS whether he is gay, or bi, or whatever, and it is not your place to tell her anything. And if he actually was gay, SO WHAT? If this story is true at all, that guy should move the hell out so he's no longer living with such dishonest, untrustworthy roommates who would rummage through his things to dig up dirt to tell his fiancee.

  • 2 years ago

    No. Its his business not yours.

  • 2 years ago

    Are they covered in poop

    If not might be a trap

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  • 2 years ago

    i thought that too and hoped so but she neverrrrr came round they been dating for 3+ years and when they moved in together he left them in a drawer locked and everything

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  • 2 years ago

    How do you know she isn't using the toys with him?

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