To be fair to everybody here, nobody has the perfect figure, weight, diet, health, etc. We have unique body shapes, needs, lifestyles, and diets which means we don't conform to one mold. With that being said, those who have weight issues etc are well aware of it and would rather worry about themselves and not get in anybody's business. If you know me personally because you are family or a really close friend then you would have the right to be concerned and be in my business. But since you don't know me or anybody here nobody has to explain anything to you but are free to if they wish. If you were skinny to the point that you looked like a walking skeleton and were trying unsuccessfully to gain weight but nobody knew you they'd think you had an eating disorder and you wouldn't appreciate being called a walking stick or something. You wouldn't want them in your business. Right?