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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 3 years ago

Should I move on or should I try to contact him again?

About 4 months ago, I met this guy online, but we live in two different states. We never went out on a date. We have been texting and speaking on the phone. We did trade pics and speak on facetime. For the most part we have been on and off. He gets angry if I don't text each day, but when I do he complains that I text during the wrong times. He never officially asked me out on a date. He just brings this subject up vaguely, and he doesn't want my family to know about him. I find it really disturbing that he brings up the subject of children since we don't know each other up-front. He always wants me to compliment him; he asks me questions: Do you think I'm handsome? Do you think I'm stylish? I find it annoying since I don't care about a guy's looks. Two weeks ago he texted me an apology, and we spoke. However, he never texted me after that. When I did text him, he never responded; so I blocked him. Then I changed my mind and unblocked him because I can't get him out of my head. It's so strange because I keep thinking about him. What should I do? Should I move on or text? I so confused and I feel stuck. I just know he doesn't genuinely like me since he is still on the website.

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  • 3 years ago
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    What PART of the guy you met online DO YOU like about him? All I'm reading is a bunch of RED FLAGS!

    Re-read your post, why this guys is not ready FOR YOU:

    1. For the most part we have been on and off.

    2. He gets angry if I don't text each day

    3. he complains that I text during the wrong times.

    4. He never officially asked me out on a date.

    5. he doesn't want my family to know about him. BONUS POINT

    6. I find it really disturbing that he brings up the subject of children

    7. I find it annoying since I don't care about a guy's looks.

    8. he never texted me after that. You're sounding more & more desperate for a guy, who is A LOOSER!

    9. so I blocked him. And you're still wondering, if you should CONTACT HIM? You're REALLY DESPERATE for a looser!

    10. because I can't get him out of my head.

    What should I do? I think you need therapy. That's what Judge Judy will tell you!

    You NEED to start looking for someone who is a complete opposite him, and you won't find him online. Try LOCALLY in person, like from work, school, church, join a group.

    Source(s): I met my husband @ work, 46 years ago, married 44 yrs. (3 days ago). I rejected many losers in my younger years, because they only want my body, or too immature for me.
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