We never said we hate white men or that they're all bad. If a "feminist" tells you this, (s)he's not a feminist. As a white male, you are born with inherent privileges that you cannot get rid of, no matter how much you support women. For example, you are more likely to get a job, get paid more, be promoted to high-level positions, less likely to get arrested, etc. just because you are white and a man. We don't hate you or think you are bad unless you are actively making us feel that way. When we say "men are ____" we mean "men who are actively sexist/racist/etc are ____"