Can a marriage be successful if one of us is not romantically attracted?
nothing wrong w\ guy, has money, his family rich, my friends get envious of the effort, time & expensive gifts he gave, but why don't I get romantically attached?
On the 1st months of dating I was exited & happy, but after maybe the 4th month I'm just thinking "I have a business to run, I don't have time for going to theme parks & be happy, I have filing &stuff to do" but I made time anyway telling him stuff like "let's stop over the City Hall before going to the park"
every time we go out, I grab my to do list& we got productive then go on our date afterwards. He is considerate and he respects my marriage before doing anything in bed decision
I should feel lucky or something,am I weird? I think I'm career oriented, but maybe I want to get married sometime in my life too..but it's been 4 years that we dated and we never cheat on each other and we didn't really fought in our relationship, we both just apologize, forgive, forget.
I never really thought about this until a little bird told me that he's going to pop the big question soon. Why would I stick with him if I don't have romantic feelings? I don't know--I thought I'll just develop that romatic screeching feeling my friends get sometime while dating. did I mention it's been 4 years?
I don't even remember back in highschool or college that i had this "exited love feeling" I think I did, but it died too soon, it must be infatuation. During college I had that, but scanning my diary, I
found out that I'm just vain thinking that I'm so pretty because I get that feeling for myself when guys were flocking over me but I didn't choose a boyfriend because I didn't want to lose the flock of guys. (I was so messed up)
I reply to his "i love you" coz he says it makes him feel better and that I feel it is a responsibility as a girlfriend.
Since he listens to me and treats me like a queen and we're both responsible, our marriage should prosper?
Or is the right thing to do reject the proposal all because "I don't have romantic feelings yet".