How would you feel if your friend dated one of your ex boyfriends/girlfriends?

Question

I know there’s a girl code ex’s are off limits with your friends but It wouldn’t bother me because all I want is for my friend to be happy. If my ex makes my friend happy that’s all that matters.

Answer 1

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I agree with you.

Exes are off limits it you're 14 years old.

Mature adult do it differently.

If I wanted my friends exe, I would ask him if there were still feelings there.

And would it upset him if I were to see her.

When asked of me? I would be honest and tell him to go ahead if I was done with her.

No reason those two couldn't try to find happiness with each other.

Answer 2

I don't know about any "code". After my divorce, I seduced as many of my ex-wife's close friends as possible. I remained friends with them. I did this to spite my ex. It felt good.