Was I wrong to ask my friend about this situation?
So I asked a close friend of mine who is also an immigrant "If your cousin came to the US and didn't tell you she was coming and you found out later... would you be upset?" My friend replied "It depends how close we are." Reasonable answer for sure.
So then when I told my mom that I asked a friend of mine she thought that it was kind of stupid for me to ask a friend about this situation. So, was I stupid in asking a friend about how she would feel if she were in my situation?