Am I merely an option instead of a priority?
He is incredibly kind, is good about calling/texting, but I don't feel like I am a priority. We only see each other 1-2 times a week. He usually calls to say he misses me, which is nice, but why not back it with action?
A few weeks ago, he was complaining that he was bored with his family, but "couldn't leave." Miraculously, he left later to go play basketball.
I also feel like I plan a lot of things, and he just goes along with it. I don't expect him to take me on lavish vacations, but come on...
I also have my own sets of friends and keep busy, so it's not like I sit around all day, but I do make time to see him. I just feel frustrated.
What should I do here?