You want to love her so much that you imagine what you want to see
She is looking for a provide and you provide for her every want, need and desire. As you spoon feed her the ideas. With you around she does not have the need to think. Let alone spend.
You buy her food, travel, entertainment, drinks and she never took the time to buy you a slice of pizza. Her credit card debt is proof that she is irresponsible when it comes to her finances. She is expecting a provider to come to her rescue. Stop rescuing her, you are enabling her to have accountability.
Offer me a $2,000 trip and I’ll pay $100 without a complaint.
The reality is that you are in love which are emotions that cloud up your logic.
Stop being her submissive kiss-***. She hates you because you are her servant in her eyes and you serve her needs. She loves your provisions, hell, who wouldn’t?
Stop being her simp, submissive, provider. Women hate simps.