To me, as a male, and as someone who hates to see weak women abused, yes this makes me part of the 98% who are feminist in the broadest of its meanings, I think the tell is this: can and does she turn down the jons and clients who she does not like to get intimate with ? If yes, she is a free woman having fun and living it up ! If no, then sadly she is a weak, abused, enslaved woman.
I hope all who are abused get set free and get empowered ! This might make me a feminist in the narrow sense too, but hey, I am not ashamed. I am willing to stand and say the truth: bullies suck, justice is when the tables are turned and when the good are rewarded while the bad are made to regret, then us good are rewarded some more .... by good looking women ! It has never happened yet, but one day it will happen, hopefully