Why does he flirt with me in private but yet in private...?

So this guy that I work with has flirted with me in private. Private as in, no one was in hearing distance. But he has flirted with me on several occasions.

But whenever the rest of our coworkers that we are mutually friends with, are around, he barely talks and looks at me. What's up with that?

I feel like the least he could do is make conversation with me when other people are around but he barely does. And I find it odd? Why is he like this?

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  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    He wants to be sur of you first. Are you keen?

  • 2 years ago

    Because he probably doesn't want to be reprimanded or fired for flirting with a coworker?

    • BeatriceBatten
      Lv 7
      2 years agoReport

      Er, that's reassuring. I guess. Anyway, if you want to know then ASK HIM. We aren't mind readers, especially across the Internet. You were actually there - if you don't know, then how would we?

  • 2 years ago

    He doesn't want anybody else to know and his reasons could be nefarious in nature. You should ask him, but if I were you I'd think twice about dating somebody you work with.

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