It's always been like this, girls who are easy gets 1st picking, girls who play hard to get usually wind up with what is left. You better be folding instead of holding it because some other chick is going to lay it on him. Even Kenny Rogers knew that. And you better be putting out that good stuff.
Edit Lots of females today are after the physical pleasure sex can give them females can get just as much pleasure out of sex, maybe even more, and there's is only 1 way to find it, by having sex, I doubt if there is a whole lot of men who know how to make a woman have an orgasm and if you don't get 1 of the 1s who do know how, someone is going to be very unhappy, probably both of you. I'm not advocating jumping in bed with every man you go out with, but you should be getting some kind of a feeling from a guy after 5 or 6 dates. I'm assuming that you're still a virgin so you don't know what to expect when you first have sex. Most guys don't know the difference between having sex and making love, I never like that term though, love comes from the heart not from a penis and vagina, but what comes from them are going to be a very important part of your life and if both of your needs aren't met, then there's going to be trouble in paradise. My wife and I had sex on our 2nd date and we've been together almost 50 years. You've got what guys want and if you share it with him frequently, I think most will be faithful. If you're getting something out of it, you will be much more willing to share it frequently. If babies can't wear them out, a mans' penis sure isn't going to. We've had times where my wife would say I'm too tired, BS, my work was very physically demanding but she found out that a good pop when she was tired could make her sleep like a baby. Maybe a lot of women don't want to have sex every night is because most men think they have to hammer a woman and what he is doing is going to make her sore, A man can be gentle with a woman and him get the same results but the female will come out far ahead. I also advocate that couples live together to make sure they are compatible in other things, not just sexually. After I got married there were no boys night out, I'd much rather be with her. .
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I think most guys are a lot like me, sexual compatible is the most important thing in a relationship, if I'm not sexually satisfied it doesn't matter what else a female has to offer me, I would take an average looking female with a high sex drive over a beautiful female with an average sex drive. Good luck to you