My wife says sex hurts. I don't know what to do?

So she's 61 and I'm 58 (I'm a man.) We haven't had sex for 2 years now. It started hurting her after menopause. I'm still randy but I don't want to make her feel bad. We've been married for 31 years now. We can talk about everything but this. She doesn't even want to talk about... show more So she's 61 and I'm 58 (I'm a man.) We haven't had sex for 2 years now. It started hurting her after menopause. I'm still randy but I don't want to make her feel bad. We've been married for 31 years now. We can talk about everything but this. She doesn't even want to talk about it. I'll never cheat on her, but I have to do something.

We still cuddle and kiss (which just makes me excited) but that's it.

Thoughts? I don't even care if trolls answer this. I'm desperate.
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