I think you should drop out from college. When I was a college student, I was focusing on learning something new, and as a result most of my grades were high. Yes, most of my grades were high, but I didn't care about my grades. Because I cared about learning something new.
Employers, or clients are probably not going to give you a chance unless if you can prove that you deserve an opportunity to work.
Sure you can say I attended college, and I earned a Diploma, or whatever they plan on giving you after you graduate, but that won't matter. Because you have chosen to go to college, for the wrong reason just like the girls you are talking about, and their reason is different than yours. >>> " I am more focused on my grades."
My mom also asked me the same question. Other women also asked me the same question.
I told my mom that I am not interested, and I want to focus on developing my career. My mom tried to hook me up with a couple of intelligent women, but I said no.