Women: Would you find this romantic?

I have gone on a number of dates with women this year but none made me satisfied. The whole thing felt very dry and mechanic. Overall, it was hard because in order to make the datw enjoyable I had to make one sacrifice that I just cant make. Namely, my identity, who I am. But what I did was quite impressive, I am... show more I have gone on a number of dates with women this year but none made me satisfied.
The whole thing felt very dry and mechanic.
Overall, it was hard because in order to make the datw enjoyable I had to make one sacrifice that I just cant make.
Namely, my identity, who I am.

But what I did was quite impressive, I am only 22 and I took these girls (some of them older than me) to many great places.
I live in NY and travel often,

Some examples of my dates were,
Going to TEFAF at the Park Avenue Armory
Dinner at Daniel Buolud
Carmen at the Metropolitan opera preceded by a members only reception
Dinner at the Breakers Hotel in Palm Beach
Romeo and Juliet ballet at the Adrienne Arsht in Miami
Walk by the Thames river followed by a show at the Globe theatre


I really dont know what I am doing wrong...
I paid for all these dates! I wore my best!

I dont have a girlfriend by the way, these dated were all something experimental on their nature.
They were a sort of invitation to a relationship that I proposed.

Nothing happened.

Not entirely their fault, a little but of mine.
But simply in the fact that I could not be some dumb stereotypical boyfriend. You know?
"Hey babe, I <3 you"

Women dont like my personality, they think Im too serious, too conservative.
I dont get drunk, I dont invite them to dance,
My number one complaint is that I can be too cold.
They want a 'fun' boyfriend.

But these 'fun boyfriends' often come with consequences and are typically very unstable men.
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