Attention wives: Do you ever get the "wished I lived alone sometimes" blues?

I have been married for a few years now and I am the best at compromise. But, I really miss having my own bathroom back when I was single. If I were cleaning up a splat or some hair from the sink, I knew it was MY OWN hair....so it made it easier I guess. I love my hubby so much and adore the manly things he does on a daily.....but ladies, can someone share my frustration? What are the things you miss about having your own bathroom? And by the way, not everyone has the luxury of two bathrooms.....some of us are on the struggling end of the stick :)

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    Lol yes and I have been married for 26 years and also my husband has felt the same way regarding me ie he has on occasions wished he was single again ( apparently not for a long time though).

    I have the wonderful task of having to clean my husband's hankies and they are not for the faint hearted. He will not use paper hankies; but by heck, his hankies are as white as snow, once they have been cleaned and ironed and well, if I had a baby ( sadly not), I would have to do that kind of thing anyway.

    It is called: living together and those who do live on their own, wish they could complain about dirty hankies and hairs that do not belong to them lol

    • By chance, I happen to not be American. I am from the uk, but live in France.

      First time a female as called me: doll lol

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

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  • 2 years ago

    Everyone, every now and then, wishes for a different life, thinking it's better, easier, etc.

    It's wishful thinking, grass is always greener on the other wise of the fence thinking.

  • 2 years ago

    yes

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  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    I have on occassion thought to myself how much easier my life would be if I wasn't cooking cleaning and taking on the responsibility for my husband and his three kids. when i think about whose life would get easier and whose life would ger harder if we separated..it's clearly my life that would get way easier. I have asked, begged, b!tched and moaned to get the help I need but it just doesn't happen or isn't consistent. and if i don't ask, i'm told it's my fault for not asking

  • .
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    I didn't wish I lived alone, but there were times I wanted to be alone for a while. I encouraged my spouse to have his own interests and activities, so I could have my "me" time now and then. It was different from his first marriage, where his former wife wanted to know where he was at every moment.

    We just had 1 bathroom and it was no big deal. It didn't matter whose "splats" or hair I was cleaning up, when cleaning the bathroom. Most couples I know, share a bathroom anyway, regardless of how many bathrooms are in their home, although his n' hers lavatories are common, so 2 people don't have to share a single one of they need to use it at the same time.

  • 2 years ago

    OMG your having a crisis cause you share a bathroom many people live in apartments and condos that only have one bathroom kind of pathetic. Make things work and when you can find a place with two bathroom wife and I did the one bedroom thing for 13yrs it sucked but you work with what you have however when moving into a new place two bathrooms was a must to our realtor not even looking at it if only one bathroom. We now have our own bathrooms and it is fantastic even though she sneaks into mine cause I have the larger tub I do not care.

    • Calypso
      Lv 7
      2 years agoReport

      Haha Livinrawguy --- we (my husband and I) are about to start house searching soon...and yeah, not even going to look at a place that is not at LEAST a 1.5 bathroom. We came to this conclusion after both having the flu at the same time in our 1br/1bath....eeeekkkkkk!!!!

  • y
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    My wife has her own bathroom, the kids and I share.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Yes... the struggle!

    It's a miracle you have the fortitude to endure!

  • Burgoo
    Lv 6
    2 years ago

    Wonder what'll happen when you have a real problem.

    • Blondeeze2 years agoReport

      You don't know my problems. And was that really necessary to say? Feel better? Unbelievable. This site has really gone downhill.

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