My boyfriend won't allow me to have an abortion?

I'm only 18 and I know I'm not ready to be a mother. I told myself I wouldn't have kids of my own because I didn't want to ruin my body. I still have my whole life ahead of me and I don't want to be held back by a child. My boyfriend on the other hand has always wanted a child and I can... show more I'm only 18 and I know I'm not ready to be a mother. I told myself I wouldn't have kids of my own because I didn't want to ruin my body. I still have my whole life ahead of me and I don't want to be held back by a child. My boyfriend on the other hand has always wanted a child and I can understand that since he's in his early 30's. When I told him I needed an abortion he told me I shouldn't and better not get one because I'd be killing his child. He said if I did he'd never look at me the same way. I don't want to rob him of being a father but it's just not something I want right now.
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