He doesn't love you. If he did, he would support you and have genuine care and concern for your wants and needs. Period. It's that simple.
Now on the baby thing, it seems like you aren't ready. If there is a way for you to get a safe abortion, then well... this is for you and your body to decide!
There are PLENTY of ways to have children nowadays, not just this way...
However if you do decide to keep this baby, then you are also free to do that, and by the way, I would advise you two to get marriage counseling. This is very important! Of course, there aren't any guarantees, but at least you will know that you are in this together, no matter what!
I got experience in life and have read and educated myself of it because if I didn't I'd have probably been dead or have a ton more problems than I do now. Good luck!