"i wash my hair with shampoo everyday" So, 1st of all STOP THAT! Your hair doesn't get dirty everyday, unless you live in India or China, where there's pollution, dust, /or if you're using hair products then YES go for it.
Washing less often, builds the natural oil your hair needs, to get them smoother, shinier, silkier, softer. Man-made products are just temporary, until you wash them again, and at the same time washing off the natural oil your hair NEEDS. Hair products just absorb on your hair if they're dry, like a sponge.
Hair products are NOT made of glue to fix, prevent, repair, reverse hair from getting damaged, or hair loss, or make them grow . . . . they are a $62 billion dollar business. They also do NOT give money back guarantee for damaged hair or hair loss caused by heat & chemicals - hair's worst enemies. • Hair products may claim one or more benefits, but usually they do not have scientific base.
Many actors & models get silky, soft, smooth hair by setting their hair briefly with bobby pins or plastic curlers by hairstylist. Set aside time in the morning to do that after you've wash your hair. Depending on the length of your hair again, do it when hair is 35% dried. Blow dry briefly. Let it cool. Take the curlers or pins out. Finger comb. Done. This is the old school way of changing the TEXTURE of any hair, for 6 decades.
5 decades of great hair know-how, have given advice for 17 years. When I get my hair permed, that's how I still take care of my hair to prevent frizzy, and it will be soft & silky for days, or until my next wash.