I think my 12 year old daughter fancies her step dad I am 30 and he is 24 she licks spoons in front of him seductively?

Answer 1

As a 13 year old I'd say its normal. Hormones. Puberty.
But it does risk breaking the family. So I suggest going to therapy.
If your insurance doesn't cover that one you don't want to, you guys need to sit and talk.
Make sure you aren't just assuming things.
Don't hit her or give her punishments.
Make sure your boyfriend isn't the cause of this/encouraging this and that they have a healthy father-daughter relationship.
Lastly- relax. Its probably a phase.
- with love, good luck.

Answer 2

you got a dirty mind sounds like you need to sit in group and see a doctor
get some meds

Answer 3

I would suggest seeing a counselor for yourself. I'm guessing that there is more details to the story here than just her licking spoons at the dinner table. If you feel comfortable going into detail with a counselor then they could best advice you. It sounds like you care a lot and don't want to screw up and do the wrong thing (whatever that may be). The answer probably won't be simple. If you can go to the best sources, then you can get the best advice. Then you can make the best decision for you and your husband and your daughter.
All of you are worth taking care of.

Answer 4

You need to get her some help and get that man out of your house. Sounds like your child has been touched by someone and she is acting out. Shouldn't bring men around your kids.

Answer 5

And you sit there and do nothing? God I hope you're never a parent with that attitude.

Answer 6

Are you sure you're not just jumping to conclusions? Maybe she's just eating, and you're paranoid.

Answer 7

Have you tried not sexualising your child, and actually trusting your husband to maintain appropriate boundaries?

Answer 8

Troll.

Answer 9

You suck at trolling.

Answer 10

Maybe she saw you as you suck your lover's dick, maybe someone else should take care of your daughter