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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 4 years ago

Is there any hope for me? I ve lost sleep wondering if I m worthy enough for a long term relationship.?

I created a new account specifically to ask this question. I ashamed, embarrassed, and insecure to talk truthfully about this with people I know; or knowing my identity. I m a 25 year old emasculated male. My now ex girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me with a number of men this past year. She told me my manhood wasn t large enough and that I couldn t please her. She told everyone on Facebook actually. We had a kinky sex life and she let everyone know the details of that as well. I did very weird things with her because I trusted her. She s sent me pictures of her having sex with a guy who s obviously larger than me. He had no problem letting me know about it as well. That hurt alot. I wanted to marry her, she said yes to me. But told her friends she was never going to marry me. She gave her new boyfriend the ring I bought her. I took of care business, I worked for a living, paid our bills, and pretty much did what I was supposed to. I was an asshole sometimes, I had my moments. I can t figure out whether I deserved this or not. I wasn t an angel but neither was she. Isn t there a line that shouldn t be crossed? Or a sanctity of trust even between ex partners? I m in a really dark place. And know one knows it but the people who took the time to read this. Thank you.

2 Answers

  • 4 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    There's always hope, but it has to start with you. It sounds like you were taken advantage of. I'm really sorry, and I mean that. I relate to what you are saying. Life has a plan for us. We need to get back on our feet and keep fighting. I respect you in so many ways and just know that you will always have someone on your side.

  • 4 years ago

    That ***** is gonna get an STD. Don't worry.

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