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Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 4 years ago

Why do women pay for sex?

I know europeans are stereotyped for this but i'm sure it happens all over the world why do rich beautiful (sometimes married) women hire gigolos when they can just throw themselves at any random guy and get some. So why pay for something you can get for free? It just doesn't make since.

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago
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    I live in a city of around 400k. There is ONE open-secret male prostitute who specialises in servicing upper-middle professional women. He can often be spotted at the theatre, opera, executive private functions, society weddings and fine dining establishments. I used to wonder why there are so few like him but thinking about it it it's a very demanding job. The women who use his services don't just want sex. They want a holiday from their real life stresses and disappointments. This guy has to be not just good at sex but dress pleasingly, go out in public and make the woman on his arm feel special, chosen and not interchangeable. He has to make good conversation with her (seriously, his booking form has a blank for topics of interest and level of knowledge/detail so he can go away and study). He has to be able to dance and lead so well that a bad dancing woman looks okay on the floor (social dance is big around here).

    So in the end, it really is just like most men who buy sex, to feel wanted and free from the burdens of responsibility, but women demand more than a few humps.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    4 years ago

    Obviously just any random guy is not going to satisfy these women who are looking for a specific type of man. That's why women are more picky than men because they have more at stake than merely throwing themselves at any desperate man.

  • 4 years ago

    If that's true, I'm guessing those women are after a specific type of man, one who dresses well, takes care of his body and knows what he's doing in bed. They're paying for a fantasy and more likely to get what they want if they hire a man rather than throw themselves at some random dude in a club.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Please beware of the STDs before you go to prostitutes or sleep around, especially INCURABLE very common HERPES (HSV2), Every 1 out of 6 People have it, since prostitutes and girls who sleep around have sex with so many they are most likely to have it and this virus can be contracted even if you wear a condom

    Search the net for herpes and you will find the details

    Pls don't ruin your entire life for FEW MINUTES OF FUN, It's not worth it. Have one trusted partner for sex even it may take time to find a one

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  • 4 years ago

    Women typically get paid for having sex.

  • ֆEƓA
    Lv 6
    4 years ago

    Because it takes little to no effort to pay for a good quality lover compared to throwing yourself at some random dude or trying your luck with a Craigslist ad. Escorts or gigolos wouldn't get away with charging the price they do if they couldn't deliver the quality. I haven't and wouldn't ever pay because of the reason you mentioned, so that's just my guess.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    Why does anyone pay for sex. They have no social skills.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Where else could a woman get a Portuguese Breakfast done the right way?

  • they dont necessarily always just want to get pumped and dumped by a random guy they want a specific service from a specific type of guy

  • 4 years ago

    That calls luxury and promiscuity

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