Should I dye or highlight my hair?

I have dirty blonde hair, with some natural golden blonde highlights. I don't want to get something fake looking, I want like maybe lighter hair. Blonde beach waves, but not platinum blonde with some dirty blonde mixed in. I can't show you a picture of what I'm describing because it won't let me do... show more I have dirty blonde hair, with some natural golden blonde highlights. I don't want to get something fake looking, I want like maybe lighter hair. Blonde beach waves, but not platinum blonde with some dirty blonde mixed in. I can't show you a picture of what I'm describing because it won't let me do it. I've never gotten anything done on my hair so it's scary, what if it doesn't look right. Help. I just want to change my look, I'm not sure though.
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