How do i get my bank to stop locking my debit card for fraud every time?

i am 18 and this is my first card, i have had it for a month. i can use it once, and then every other time it gets rejected and the bank calls me because of their fraud protection. so every time i have to explain and take up 20 minutes just to get the card to finally work again. this is ridiculous
Update: i would even be ok with turning it off completely, i never have more than $200 usable in my account so if it gets stolen and i lose $200 then oh well
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