BDSM. male 20's sumbmissive.. confused... Can BDSm activities be limited to bed..?
Problem is i just wanted this to happen in a room and not out side of it,, i am a rather dominant and aggressive in my daily life and would just love to surrender in bed. After this kink i am just a normal man who appreciate normal love. i was wondering how this thing work. can it end only in bed or a 'dominant in bed' partener will start to exert dominance and be bossy in other functions of life (which i don't life). will she deteriorate my self respect and dignity outside of bed just because i like to be submissive in bed. is this too much i am wishing for. i also wanna know how girls take it. is only women in bdsm life style would understand it or i can discus this to a normal girl without freaking her out and making situations wierd. how a girl would take it if i say i like you to be dominant, i want to worship your every part on my knees, i want you to spank me, restrain me and have your way you want. (did i just made a huge mistake telling that to a normal girl). i also like dominance but to keep things short leaving it..