Do you think it is okay to ask this guy to hold my hand today?

I've known this guy since September and we've been hanging out with a group of people.

I just turned 23 and he is 21 and both students.

We got a bit closer after I made a paper crane and gave it to him during a class.

He started texting me since the day.

Last week, he asked me if I wanted to go for dinner with him on the weekend. I don’t automatically assume that guys pay for dinner though. He asked for separate. My friend told me he doesn’t have much experience with relationships.. and neither do I...

On the same day, he was hiding a paper crane that he made in his pocket and gave it to me. It was very cute.. :) We went hiking the next day together as well.

And before the weekend, I texted him about some show we both like.

He asked me what I am doing this weekend

And he said “I have assignments to write but need to go out at some point:)”

I asked him “Will you go out with meee:D?”

He said “Of course! that’s what I meant to say! what do you want to do?”

But yesterday, we ended up going to a theater with some other friends...

(they were bored and wanted to join us...)

So I texted him after if he wants to go for dinner or something today and he said yes:)

I think he likes me back...? but I don't know.

He seems to be a shy person. He does not show his expression…

I would like to hold his hand.. do you think I am asking too much..?

It will be too awkward if he says no...

I am very shy so I don't think I can do it but I want to. I don't know.

Any suggestions?

3 Answers

  • 6 years ago
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    don't ask just do it goddamn it

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  • 6 years ago

    Are you male? If so then I don't see a problem in you making the first move. Just take it slow, especially since he's quite shy

    However if you're female, it would seem quite brash of you to hold his hand and make the first move. Wait for him to take things further as you have already indicated that you like him.

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  • 6 years ago

    Well don't ask just do you look weird when you ask

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