Was it lust or love?

Question

I was in a relationship with this guy for 10 months. We finally broke up recently. I was so hurt and devastated. I am not sure if I was in love or lust. I always wanted to have sex but after sex it was like whats next. Also, is it normal to obssess over someone once y'all break up, how long does this anxiety stage last?

Answer 1

Sounds like lust to me! I had the same relationship I had absolutely nothing in common with the guy besides we both had sexual attraction towards each other but then we never had actual conversations. The break up was still hard though only because I was used to him... give it a month and go for personality next time ;)

Answer 2

Aww. Thanks Jessica, I really needed that motivation. I was so hurt and I still am. But I know in time I will be 100 percent better.

Answer 3

Well if you only wanted his for sex then it was lust.