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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 6 years ago

What is she thinking?

This one girl I really like I'm not sure whether or not she likes me. I want to ask her to homecoming and whatnot but I'm not sure how. How do I get her number? How do I ask her to homecoming? Read the link for more information.

The link would answer the question of whether or not she likes me

I was talking to her and I said "I heard from my sister you spend 4 hours a night on gymnastics. How do you manage that?!" Her response to my remark was "haha. I don't know." I've heard that the laugh is anti embarrassment something or other and therefore either means that she likes me or hates me. I'm not really sure which. Though she doesn't seem to like me, my sister said she likes a different guy and I don't really think she likes me. I'm not really in her league.

I've heard people say both that she likes me and that she doesn't want to have anything to do with me so now I'm really confused. Please help me. What's going on?


She also seemed kind of nervous when I was near her. Before I started talking to her, she would randomly give me these strange half smile and wave type things. I have no idea what that was. Was it some kind of discomfort? I know what it may mean when a girl is around a guy other than me, but I don't think girls really like me. I'm not that kind of guy.

Update 2:

Tonight my sister just started talking to me randomly when I was walking out of her room. This was the conversation:

Her: Hey, Ben! I heard you're going to ask Mika out.

Me: Yeah... Why?

Her: No reason (she might have been smiling though I'm not sure)

Me: Wait... How did you hear that I was going to ask her out?

Her: Mom

Me: Why would you be talking to Mom about it? And why'd you ask? She doesn't like me so why do you care? I expect her to say no.

Her: Mom told me. I didn't ask.

Update 3:

Me: Ok. I still don't see why you'd care, but ok.

Her: I don't.

Me: Then why ask?

She didn't respond to that question. This probably sounds kinda dumb, but I don't think she would have started that conversation if she didn't care that I was going to ask her out. It's almost as though she's hiding something. She knows something that I'm absolutely clueless about, such as that this girl likes me. Again, it probably sounds really stupid and I'm ashamed for even thinking this. But why not ask?

Update 4:

She hates me.

3 Answers

  • Amber
    Lv 4
    6 years ago
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    Omg she likes you!!! Go for it dude, Im a girl and when I have a crush on a guy,

    -I like to look at the ground

    Don't talk much

    -WAYY more accident-prone (tripping, falling)

    -Always end up doing something stupid(yesterday i jumped off a swing and landed on a snowblower, long story)

    -stutter when i do talk

    Ask her to homecoming. Chances are, she really really likes you but afraid of rejection, like myself :P

    Source(s): 15yr girl
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  • 6 years ago

    I'm pretty sure this girl is interested in you, or at least wants to get to know you. If she gave you half-smiles and waves before you started talking to her, it could mean she wanted to get your attention.

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  • Marie
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    I'd say she likes you for sure, and I read all your link, I thnk you just need to go up to her when you can get her alone and say would you like to go to the dance with me , ( if she says yes THEN you ask for her phone # ) you can do it, go for it =)

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