I have this need to help men?

I almost exclusivley go for damaged guys, weather they were abused when younger or suffer from depression, I do not find un damaged men attractive because I feel like they don't need me. I need to help them, I feel happy when I make this smile and when they are happy is the only time I am. Unfortunately... show more I almost exclusivley go for damaged guys, weather they were abused when younger or suffer from depression, I do not find un damaged men attractive because I feel like they don't need me. I need to help them, I feel happy when I make this smile and when they are happy is the only time I am. Unfortunately because of this, I am involved in a lot of abusive relationships, but I can;t imagine my life without helping them with love and understanding. Why do you think this is? and will this need ever go away?
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Update 2: I'm very aware that it's unhealthy, but I don't know what to do, I'm a bit lost right now.
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