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Anonymous asked in 家庭及人際關係單身及約會 · 7 years ago

男朋友考試 感情問題

係甘的

男朋友下星期一就要考IB試(類似HKDSE,不過IB係外國課程)

點講好呢 我差吾多有一個月mo見到佢啦(因為太忙),我地吾同學校,佢大我兩年,係個外國人,讀英基果d

佢上星期六就開始好少好少覆我ge message(其實佢之前都吾係會秒回果種人,不過上一兩次線就會回,我一話擔心佢佢就很安慰我)佢話佢好忙好忙,甚至忙到mo時間回一個emoji比我。我都明ge,不過有時見到佢不停甘online 真係好confuse,點解會吾回我message架呢...佢星期六果陣叫我一定要信佢,佢係好愛好愛我,但係呢緊果一個星期因為要溫書,所以未必覆到我。

additionally,佢每次回我都係‘i am busying‘ 或者 ‘i don't have any time’ or ‘I am working’.... 無論我點flirt點講I love you 點講我有幾掛住佢 佢永遠都係答呢三句

我知佢好忙好忙 不過我自己都控制吾到自己...前三日都向佢發脾氣...

甘岩前日,發現到佢同我講大話。

話說之前我問佢有mo instagram,佢話mo,我咪信佢lo。但係前日我好mo意甘揾到佢吾單只有account,仲要係好耐之前已經有(mo潛水)。之後我睇佢呢幾日d post,令我更加confused...佢呢日都話佢好忙甚至連一秒鐘都mo;甘點解佢又有時間係星期日晚同friend 食dinner 飲酒,星期一同friend游水,星期二再同friend出街ge?(但係以我所知,佢一定吾會係外遇,因為個個friend都吾同)但係又吾得閒回我一個emoji?我好間接甘問佢,佢就問我點解會知;我答佢我無意甘揾到,仲say埋sorry because I didn't respect his private(永遠都係我認錯,就算我完全無錯)。結果,唉,又自己話係自己錯。不過,第二日佢都回多左 message比我架啦,起碼話比我知佢今日去邊(雖然只係一小句,或者單字)

he said the previous him would be back after exam, who loves and flirt with me.

今日朝早又係甘了... but I think I should be used to this :)

I said all I can do is to support him, let him concentrate on his works, never worry about me :)

再打左篇千字文比佢haha

以下又d問題想問下:(盡答啦,吾洗答曬, thank you :))

1 請問各位臨近考公開試果時,係咪都吾會有心情回自己男/女朋友ge message架?(忙緊溫書果陣)

2 你覺得佢有mo變心呢?出面有第二個?定係只係太忙呢?(佢成日wtsapp online,但係又吾回我message,我成日spam佢都吾理我,跟住見我成日打野比佢,就會話佢好忙)

3 考試=連回一個emoji都mo時間?

4 我依家應該點做呀,好mo直接問佢點解成日online?定繼續support佢,信佢?

5 點先可以向佢講下自己ge不安ge心情,又吾會煩到佢,影響佢?

Update:

係咪盡量吾好send message比佢?比d空間佢(我都知我幾煩... always text him...what's makes him stress

Update 2:

佢依家連線都吾上,我又吾想打電話比佢煩佢

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  • 7 years ago
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    其實你自己都知道答案,係想聽人肯定者!

    我覺得佢係因為考試煩先吾搵你者,其實吾見一,兩個月,感情穩定既話,係無咩問題既,我同我男朋友一齊左好多年,一時一個月見7-8刺,一時一至兩個月先見一刺,因為大家都明白對方有自己既生活,吾係成日得閒!!!!

    我覺得你依傢應該比多d空間佢,我考試都吾想我男友煩住我啦,佢都講低左自己係因為考試先會敢,最緊要係個信字,佢出去同fd食飯,考試都要抖下氣嫁嗎,佢無同你講,或者佢吾記得左,男人係敢,或時有時臨時約佢出去,應成左人未必記得同你講,如果你覺得吾開心既話,可以等佢考完試先,你地感情好返既時候同佢講(有時我要睇fbook/instagram先知你既動向,我覺得有d吾開心)

    我諗佢開左instagram無同你講,佢係想要多d空間,做自己鍾意既野,發洩下自己既情感,同米又驚你嬲....

    依傢既你吾好搵佢住啦,你應該多d約下朋友出街,食飯,或者踩下單車,比佢知道你都有自己既生活,同世界,吾係成日無野做,走去check住佢幾時線上,同成日諗佢做緊咩,敢佢會覺得你好幼稚同好攰...男人就係敢,你要比佢見到你有自己既生活,有男性都有女性朋友,自己仲有市場,吾係淨係得佢一個,佢就會好好愛鍚你!有時係要比適當既危機感佢!

    男人要好刺風(爭)敢時收時放,一時要痴佢,一時就要放開佢,依傢就係要放開佢既時候!!

  • 7 years ago

    This is only a game, between you and him is only a puppy love, you are too hard on him. Male animal like fooling around with friends, lying is part of the teen when grow up. when he says he is busy, that means he care about F around more than hanging out with you. babe, learn to let go, or stuck with his attitude, he will never change because he is only 17 or 18. Come on, live with it or let go.

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