At least half the men in the US have been destroyed through marriage and the subsequent divorce. Go to the MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) sites and the "A Voice for Men" site. They will explain to you the disastrous consequences of marriage for men. Women file the majority of divorces, collect the vast majority of alimony and child support, almost always get custody of the kids and men are often left destitute and suicidal as a result of marriage. Google for info on suicide rates for men following divorce. As a result of the divorce, you will rarely get to see what used to be your kids and you will be forced to continue to support your X wife financially while she sleeps with other men. Marriage and intimate relationships are the surest and quickest way to poverty and despair for men.
DO NOT take advice from women on getting married or on relationships. It is in their best interests to present themselves in the best possible light and to hide any gold digging ways. The majority of women actively seek out the highest earning males in society, only to later financially rape these men. The divorce can happen 1, 5, 10, 20, or 40 years down the line. Divorce, despite what others might say has been increasing for decades. In 2012, there were 2.4 million divorces. 2.4 million in a single year. That's insane! "Grey Divorce" is the fastest growing sector of divorce.
Divorced men are your best source of information on marriage and relationships. Why? They have way more experience than women on the pitfalls of marriage and relationships for men and have lived through the disastrous consequences. They have learned the hard way, as have the many tens upon tens of millions of divorced/destroyed men before them, that marriage and intimate relationships with women are the surest and quickest ways for a man to destroy his future. For this reason, women will label divorced men as bitter and misogynistic. You can find blogs by women online that warn women not to engage in relationships with divorced men. Why? These men already know the deal and aren't as easily manipulated.
The majority of women want a better educated and much wealthier man. At the same time, they demand equality in every way. How far does this hypocrisy go? It's endless.
Thanks to feminism and no-fault divorce, marriage and relationships for men have become a nonstarter and the easiest path to financial and psychological doom. Men today are nothing more than disposable, easily replaceable utilities and walking ATMs to the majority of women. Married men know all too well that no-fault divorce hangs over their heads from the moment they say "I do."
Most married men are terrified of the consequences of no-fault divorce and live in fear of their wives as a result. Why? The state will, in the vast majority of cases, award the X-wife the kids, the house, the car, half the guys pension and live savings, alimony and child support and at least half of the man's future earnings - even if the wife has an affair, files for the divorce and is responsible for the breakdown of the marriage. What does this all mean? Marriage, through no-fault divorce has become a contract that can be unilaterally broken. In any other contract, the breaker of the contract would face civil liabilities. In the case of no-fault divorce, the breaker of the contract can simultaneously be the filer, the instigator of the divorce and get financially rewarded for being so. To many women, no-fault divorce has become the path to financial independence and easy street, albeit through the destruction of men’s lives.
In many cases, the man will be expected to work as many hours as possible to continue his indentured servitude payments to his now x wife (and her boyfriends). In most cases, the man's standard of living, financial, psychological and physical health as a result of this indentured servitude will be completely ignored. These men, if they fail to continue to make their indentured slave payments (even through illness, job loss, market circumstances) will be thrown in jail.
There have been many documented cases of women having consensual sex with a man and then later filing false rape and/or domestic violence charges. The only time we find out when a man is falsely charged is when the woman admits to false claims. This kind of "honor system" and removal of a man's constitutional rights leads to disastrous consequences for men in all intimate relationships. In these cases, you are considered guilty until you can prove yourself innocent. In the majority of cases, you will be unable to do so (as that will be impossible), the court will side with the woman based on her word alone and you will go to prison (your life now permanently destroyed).
A lot of women will vehemently deny what I've written. Regardless of what they say, this is the hard, cold truth. All that I've written can be verified through Google searches.
· 6 years ago