Do you ever wish you were a guy?

Sometimes I wish I were a guy. Not because of penis envy, or guys have it better, or I don't like my period, or any of the other reasons I see commonly associated with this question. When I see guys on tv, eg. Dexter, I think to myself I wish I had his body. I'm not real comfy being a girl. Never have. Nothing overtly wrong, just petite. But while I wish I had the body of a guy and think of... THAT bit... and go EEK! No way jose! But really, to me, a body is just a body, male or female. Now that I'm thinking about it, this stretches to my perception of others too. I've never really made the distinction when in reference to other people. I call girls handsome and guys beautiful. But when I see guys, their shoulders are broad (yes, hollywood sterotype, I know), they don't have this chest that sticks out for the whole world to see, and I think that I would be SO MUCH more comfortable with that kind of body. Perfect world I guess. Does anyone else feel this way? For reasons other than guys have it easier, periods, or penises? (Please excuse the blunt language. I didn't want confusion with synonyms etc)

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  • 7 years ago
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    From what you've described, it actually sounds like you might be trans*. It's something that you will have to think about and accept or discard as you see fit. I'll do some quick definitions and kind of "trans man 101," and then any other research is yours to do.

    Sex - the parts you have, your chromosomes, and your hormone levels (including how your body reacts to those hormones)

    Gender - how you feel (man, woman, somewhere in between, etc.), For some trans* people, the earliest sign of being trans* was wishing they could be another gender, not necessarily feeling like the another gender.

    Gender expression - how you display your gender for others to see. How you dress, walk, talk, etc. (feminine, masculine, androgynous, etc.) This is completely separate from gender itself. You can be a feminine man (like me!) or a masculine woman.

    Gender assigned at Birth - What did the doctor say when you were born? In most countries/cultures there are only two options for this, boy (Male assigned at birth or MAAB) and girl (Female assigned at birth or FAAB).

    The gender binary - Our society views gender as a binary. You are a boy or a girl, there is nothing in between or outside of the system. Well, actually there is. There isn't really any reason to only have two genders. Some cultures had three, or five, or more. Some current, western non-binary gender identities are genderqueer, agender, gender fluid, bigender, etc.

    Trans*/transgender - When your gender doesn't match your gender assigned at birth. The trans* was originally created to be more inclusive. Where some people view transgender as being strictly within the binary (trans man or trans woman), trans* can include non-binary people as well. The current trend is that transgender should also be more inclusive. Depending who you talk to, they can mean the same thing or different things.

    Transexual - generally applied to someone who changes their sex - goes on hormones and/or has one of the sex reassignment surgeries. This word is somewhat out of vogue.

    Cisgender (or just cis) - Someone who isn't trans*

    ftm - female to male, a word to describe trans* folks who were female assigned at birth (FAAB) but feel like guys (me!)

    Transition - the process of changing the way people refer to you (social transition), or your sex (physical/medical transition).

    Dysphoria - a feeling of emotional pain or being uncomfortable related to the sex of your body or the gender people see you as.

    And then a quick note about ftm medical transition.

    Hormone replacement therapy (hrt) for ftm folks usually just consists of going on testosterone (or T). A doctor closely monitors your blood hormone levels and physical changes and will adjust your dosage as they (and you) see fit. T is usually administered by a weekly or bi-weekly injection, but patches and creams also exist. The same changes occur as they would during puberty for cisgender boys. Facial hair, deepening of the voice, fat storage patterns change reducing hip and breast size, it becomes easier to put on muscle. Bone structures don't change, so if you have stopped growing, then you won't start again to be taller. Face shape usually doesn't change much. If you have your period it will eventually stop. Your clitoris may or may not experience some (not very much) enlargement.

    Top surgery is essentially the removal of breasts and the reconstruction of chest tissue. Doctors usually don't recommend it until you are already on T because the breasts could just grow back.

    Bottom surgery is theoretically the reconstruction of genitalia, but it doesn't really exist for ftm folks. Rather, it does, but the options aren't very good at all and most people choose to not have it.

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  • 5 years ago

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    haha never. What good would I get out of that? I would be expected to look good pretty much all the time. I would have to pee sitting down I would have to give birth/have a period which alone is enough of a reason. and I would have to deal with girls all the time.

  • 7 years ago

    You already have the best body. Petite women are beautiful. If I had a choice I would pick a female body like yours.

    You should go find one of those beautiful guys you were talking about. Get with him so you can share his body and adore him the rest of your life. Being a guy is not so great.

  • Kels
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    7 years ago

    As a gay female since conception, with a life mate, I'm quite content. I have male friends of various orientations, but I'm not sexually attracted to men.

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  • 7 years ago

    yes, sometimes I do wish I'm straight.

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