is it officially over between me and him?
Me and my bf been together on and off for a couple of years,im starting to notice a bad habit if him pulling away and not talking to me.Will be texting and he'll stop responding and be all on i.g of corse im not going to keep texting him so ill just leave it alone but it agrivates me how he'll disapear for a week not saying anything to me but ill see that he posted on i.g and fb commenting back to ppl through out all of the 7 days but he cant send me a text or call and ask how im doing.
I would try calling or texting him first but i know it wouldn't work because iv tried it and said What's up? Soo you just dont want to talk to me anymore i haven't heard from you in hela long and didn't get a response,it kind of hurts my feelings because it makes me feel like social media means more to him,idk why he's avoiding me and what i did so wrong to be ignored by the guy i love.What should i do?
- 6 years agoFavorite Answer
Love doesn't come and go. It's a choice. Anyways he's just giving you an immature "treatment" lol if that's what you want to call it. Point is you have to tell him if you want to be together he has got to be there. Now I have no idea the reason why he isn't talking to you. If you tell him he has a small pecker right before he goes to bed then it makes sense that he wouldn't want to talk to you for a week, but he needs to communicate what you're doing, and not be a tard and just peace out, on his girlfriend. Be plain, I want to talk to you, every day. If you don't want to work things out then this isn't going to work out. Like I said though, you have to try to see what's making him pull away, and you need to be honest with yourself, "Am I being a Naggy ***** all the time?" BUT even if you are, he needs to tell you. Work it out. Work. It. Out.Source(s): THE BRAIN. Logic. Love.
- 6 years ago
You did nothing wrong. Sometimes things happen and its not by choice, love comes and goes, it shapes who we are and makes us stronger. You need to let go, it sounds like you two are over. He's giving out signs that he's losing interest. A significant other should never be able to go a week without talking or seeing their loved one unless under an unfortunate event.
- 6 years ago
Let it go if he loves you he would be there no matter what he would make time