Lucia asked in 社會與文化語言 · 6 years ago

當外國人詢問...Virgin.*很急,英文對答*

我知道外國人對性話題比台灣開放很多。

一開始,我對有男生竟然問我這話,感到很生氣也很訝異--問別人還是不是...處女這件事。

一般來說,我想這應該是很不禮貌的問題,感覺很不尊重或是騷擾......

因此我和一個同學有點鬧翻了...;但後來知道這是滿平常的事,而且對方是開玩笑+好奇才問的,然後...我一個人反應很激動.....,我該怎麼挽救....(崩潰),我不希望不能融入大家,氣氛變得很尷尬。

所以~

1 當外國人問你是不是...Virgin,有什麼比較正經表達自己(不想被認為很開放),然後又是和善的開玩笑呢?

2 對於那個被我弄到很尷尬當成變態的人,我該如何回覆他?!

我是想表達(請翻譯):

我真的在乎和生氣,當看到你問我的問題那一刻...但基於禮貌,我必須說,很抱歉我太激動的口氣。

我是一個很嚴肅又無趣的女孩,而你的問題讓我感到不被尊重,是什麼促使你詢問一個中國女孩這件事呢?這是很不禮貌的行為(對中國人)。

或許你只是突然好奇,所以我道歉,但是我真的很困擾,再次申明,感謝你的閱讀;還有不要好奇和感到可笑,拜託...我只是一個彆扭的平凡女孩。

如果你是友善的人,問我別的吧,謝謝,結束。

一個困擾的傻子

Update:

感謝之致。

情況是一般聚會派對。

那個人我完全不熟,點頭之交都算不上,我和朋友在一旁聊天,就是很多人在玩,

事情就這樣發生...

他無聊到傳紙條寫 Virgin? Jw”

然後就有人起鬨嘻笑....我潑了一杯給他(的臉)嚐嚐,然後(英文+中文)...做出我平常完全沒這麼毀形象的行為,最後當然是氣哭到離開。

之後和其他朋友都感覺氣氛怪怪的..我很怕大家覺得我很奇怪,可能..也許我想太多。

然後,我想有眼睛的人都知道他平常就像一個渾蛋,我只能這樣說。

Update 2:

wrong - try Muslims, they are very conservative. Northern European are the other extreme.

了解。

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  • 6 years ago
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    > 外國人對性話題比台灣開放很多。

    wrong - try Muslims, they are very conservative. Northern European are the other extreme.

    2013-11-05 21:39:35 補充:

    1。一般觀念(說起來簡單):這要看很多狀況。

    A)妳與他的熟悉度-是不是深到可以交換這方面的心得?(我看起來不像)

    B)妳與他當時的話題-是不是與這方面有關希?或是大家都很high?(我看起來不像)(probably you are not stoned at that time?)

    C)他對妳平常的態度-是不是都很曖昧?

    若是他是平常就很變態,可不必跟他客氣!

    1 當外國人問你是不是...Virgin,有什麼比較正經表達自己(不想被認為很開放),然後又是和善的開玩笑呢?

    錯錯錯!妳還想用玩笑法回應?要嚴厲地說"F*** off, it is none of your business."

    2 對於那個被我弄到很尷尬當成變態的人,我該如何回覆他?!

    我是想表達(請翻譯):

    又不是妳的錯 位神要道歉?妳這種道歉(自我貶低)算是negative aggressiveness。不倒也罷了!Just say:

    "We are not close enough for question like that and I am deeply offended by it. It is not in my culture tradition to be asked that question. I ask for your apology so that our friendship may continue."

    2013-11-05 22:49:01 補充:

    Alright, he deserved it. Good for you girl. But, just curiosity - did this happen in the States? Or in TW?

    2013-11-05 22:53:07 補充:

    >之後和其他朋友都感覺氣氛怪怪的..我很怕大家覺得我很奇怪

    That is very probable indeed. However, that is the true image you want, right?

    You made a statement that - this girl has drawn the line on the sand and don't you cross it by an inch...

    2013-11-05 22:56:08 補充:

    You F*** off, if you cannot take me as who I am. Sooner or later someone will show up appreciating. Worry not, my fair lady - be who you are.

  • Beth
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    他問你是不是, 不想把氣氛弄尷尬的話, 就把問題丟回去, what do you think? or why are you so curious? or ...然後不要再回應這個問題就好了. 不然你也可以反問他, 你這樣搭訕女孩子有成功過嗎?

  • Shuang
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    you can answer that " This is embarrassing and perplexing to me, I am not so open, sorry! "

    2013-11-05 21:32:04 補充:

    also you can say that " You can ask something else."

    Source(s): me, me
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